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Da newly Found LOVE

To the world they look ordinary . They lace up just the same  but it’s not boots that matter its my soldier in the boots that means the world to me ! ♥

 
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Posted by on October 19, 2012 in Heart talk

 

Life Partners : Take care, Love & Understand

Women are to be treated as queens. Any man is not a man till he understands and accepts that his respect is due to all the women around him, especially when it comes to his wife. 

 
A wife is every thing from your best friend to your life partner, but make sure you give her the due position and respect and attention  she deserves. First and foremost of her rights is love and respect, without condition.
 
Love her, accept her, help her into her new life with you, and she will surprise you with the way she loves you back. Love her unconditionally, for she leaves her family, friends and her whole life and steps into yours to start a new one with u, just with you. Do not underestimate any sacrifice she makes for you.
 
Love her when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.
 

Love her when she “pushes” you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love her when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not “make” them on her own.

Love her when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you.

Love her when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she’s beautiful.


Love her when she looks beautiful. She’s yours so appreciate her.

Love her when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don’t ask, just tell her its going to be okay.

Love her when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her when whatever you do is not pleasing her. It happens to every one once in a while and hers will pass too.

Love her when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her simply because she is yours. You don’t need any other reason more special than that!


Source: Found this one on an online forum. It was too lovely not to share!  Enjoy.

 
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Posted by on October 1, 2012 in Heart talk

 

9 in Total!!!!!!

9 months……..aint it a long long time,i am through with 8,1 more to go. But now i am unable to handle it any more. Am i being impatient or is it the case with every one going through this period. 8 months of restrictions already, now i am suffering from insomnia too, cant sleep in wanted/comfortable positions either. Emotionally drained, physically constrained, thought process ceased:(

Its not that , that i am not looking forward desperately to the end product, i am praying hard for everything to go well and healthy but now at this point of time i am being toooooo impatient and intolerant and itchy and anxious to get out of this situation and get back to normal life.

Plus this anomalistic physical condition restricts me from any kind of hectic activity, else ive got so much in pending needing my attention….the cupboards, the kitchen, the food etc etc.

Just hoping that the time passes like a flash as it does in the situations when u just want the time to freeze.

 
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Posted by on September 28, 2011 in Heart talk

 

Deadlock it is!!!!!!!!!!!

Do relationships also come to a stand still?or is it just me who is feeling that the relation is in the iced form.its not moving forward, no new and further developments have been made for quite some time. And as the time is passing i find it difficult to move it to a next level of excitement, next level of affection, next level of attraction, next level of love.

Even if i try to bring all that essence in the relationship,i find the opposite party as dead as a doornail, probably it does not occur to the other party as it appears to me or how i feel it….and making the other party understand is pretty difficult to realize what i mean as the intellectual part of the personality in terms of relationship development is forever untouched.

Now one would probably think that why dont i get rid of it or why do i actually care……soooo the thing is,there are certain relationships in life you cant do without,you are destined to be with them once and for all. Its not so that you are forcefully being glued to them but you also are willing to be with them but for some odd reason or for the time being you certainly dont find it working.

I try my best to induce newness to it but mt efforts still feel and appear a failure.

 
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Posted by on September 27, 2011 in Heart talk

 

Immunity Gained?????

Some times in life some things stick with you for LIFE. No matter how hard u may try to stop it from happening, no matter what ever measures u may take to avoid the occurrence of it but all the time and always at regular intervals it keeps bumping into you, making you cry, hurting you, torture you and make you bleed from inside. But avoiding the existence of it becomes impossible for you,it apparently becomes a permanent part of your life and it refuses not to disappear.

As the time passes, u learn to grow and live with these circumstances and accept it as a part of your life and try to ignore and not to pay attention at the presence of it. And at one point you absolutely become immune to its occurrence, it does not hurt you anymore, does not make u cry, does not make u bleed endlessly because it already has made so much damage that further more damage does not effect you in any way. It keeps coming into view and you just ignore it and move forward. You learn not to complain about it, you learn to accept it as it is, you learn to not make a big deal out of it. Because finally you come to realize that objecting and complaining are not working rather it only ruins the situation further more.

I dont know if i should have fought against it endlessly or i did it right by surrendering and getting immune to it presence, or some times i really wonder that if i really have gained the immunity or it still comes to haunt and hurt me to no bounds.

 
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Posted by on May 31, 2011 in Heart talk

 

Khuwaab Adhooray Sahi,Khuwaab Saharay Toh Hein!!!!

How can unaccomplished and incomplete dreams be your strength and support???

Dont they just haunt you. As soon as you think of them they just rip your heart into uncountable pieces painfully reminding you of the end products which you might have achieved at the end of the accomplishment of that dream.

I am talking about the dreams which are beyond your reach,or for which you’ve tried hard enough with all your might and now you know that you cant make it come true or may be you even attempted to fly for it but because of some circumstances and reasons you quit the effort. Those kind of half baked dreams always be the reason of  cheerlessness, dejection and a heavy heart.

 
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Posted by on February 24, 2011 in Heart talk

 

Going Beyond the Ethical Limits!!!!

For quite some time my patience has been tested,and i still am on trial. i just cant figure out the reasons that why am i being treated that way but those ways are extremely painful,stressful and hurtful.

What the issues (dont know even if it can be called an issue,either its a bad habit or good habit) with me are that i just cant go beyond the ethical limits i am being thought since childhood, which are flowing in my blood ever since i grew up into a gentle woman. No matter how angry i may be, no matter how furious on what so ever important matter i may be, no matter how upset or sad or distressed i may be i just cant do unethical actions like slamming the door hard right into its frame, or blasting the cutlery into each other that they would produce horrendous noise just to scare the other person out, or banging the keys hard on the table, or pulling the dining table chair with noise…..”NO WAY”. this all is read as unethical in my books or atleast ive beeen taught so.

Isnt it weird that just to show your annoyance and antagonism you go to such acts of being ill mannered, how cam some one?. Have you not ever been made to learn that all these acts which would be shown just to bring your own frustration out shows how have you been brought up and how mannered you are…..do i really make any sense?

For some one like me who places the door in its frame so quietly that others dont even get to know that ive entered, and place the glass on the table with out making a single noise this comes out to be hateful torture for me because it leaves me in tears out of anger as i find myself helpless in changing the circumstances.

last but not the least i feel like smashing the same thing right into the face of that person just to notify that it irritates me to this limit.

 

 
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Posted by on February 4, 2011 in Heart talk