Wounds dat hurt 4 life

What’s worse, new wounds which are so horribly painful or old wounds that should’ve healed years ago and never did?

-Meredith. (v.o, 3×18)
-Greys anatomy

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Posted by on November 6, 2012 in Meaningful Quotes


Da newly Found LOVE

To the world they look ordinary . They lace up just the same  but it’s not boots that matter its my soldier in the boots that means the world to me ! ♥

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Posted by on October 19, 2012 in Heart talk


Life Partners : Take care, Love & Understand

Women are to be treated as queens. Any man is not a man till he understands and accepts that his respect is due to all the women around him, especially when it comes to his wife. 

A wife is every thing from your best friend to your life partner, but make sure you give her the due position and respect and attention  she deserves. First and foremost of her rights is love and respect, without condition.
Love her, accept her, help her into her new life with you, and she will surprise you with the way she loves you back. Love her unconditionally, for she leaves her family, friends and her whole life and steps into yours to start a new one with u, just with you. Do not underestimate any sacrifice she makes for you.
Love her when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her when she “pushes” you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love her when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not “make” them on her own.

Love her when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you.

Love her when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she’s beautiful.

Love her when she looks beautiful. She’s yours so appreciate her.

Love her when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don’t ask, just tell her its going to be okay.

Love her when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her when whatever you do is not pleasing her. It happens to every one once in a while and hers will pass too.

Love her when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her simply because she is yours. You don’t need any other reason more special than that!

Source: Found this one on an online forum. It was too lovely not to share!  Enjoy.

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Posted by on October 1, 2012 in Heart talk


9 in Total!!!!!!

9 months……..aint it a long long time,i am through with 8,1 more to go. But now i am unable to handle it any more. Am i being impatient or is it the case with every one going through this period. 8 months of restrictions already, now i am suffering from insomnia too, cant sleep in wanted/comfortable positions either. Emotionally drained, physically constrained, thought process ceased:(

Its not that , that i am not looking forward desperately to the end product, i am praying hard for everything to go well and healthy but now at this point of time i am being toooooo impatient and intolerant and itchy and anxious to get out of this situation and get back to normal life.

Plus this anomalistic physical condition restricts me from any kind of hectic activity, else ive got so much in pending needing my attention….the cupboards, the kitchen, the food etc etc.

Just hoping that the time passes like a flash as it does in the situations when u just want the time to freeze.

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Posted by on September 28, 2011 in Heart talk


Deadlock it is!!!!!!!!!!!

Do relationships also come to a stand still?or is it just me who is feeling that the relation is in the iced form.its not moving forward, no new and further developments have been made for quite some time. And as the time is passing i find it difficult to move it to a next level of excitement, next level of affection, next level of attraction, next level of love.

Even if i try to bring all that essence in the relationship,i find the opposite party as dead as a doornail, probably it does not occur to the other party as it appears to me or how i feel it….and making the other party understand is pretty difficult to realize what i mean as the intellectual part of the personality in terms of relationship development is forever untouched.

Now one would probably think that why dont i get rid of it or why do i actually care……soooo the thing is,there are certain relationships in life you cant do without,you are destined to be with them once and for all. Its not so that you are forcefully being glued to them but you also are willing to be with them but for some odd reason or for the time being you certainly dont find it working.

I try my best to induce newness to it but mt efforts still feel and appear a failure.


Posted by on September 27, 2011 in Heart talk


(2).Its JUNE After All!!!!!

Hona tha pyaaaarrr,hua mere yaaaaarrrrr;)

hmm this is something that always astonishes me and makes me wonder that hmm…. IT WAS YOU,whom i fell for finally. For me it was like love after marriage. Otherwise it could have happened in school or college or university or any where else, but no,you were there waiting for me and i was made for you only that all through out my life before u came in i didnt come across any one,didnt find any one perfect enough for myself. Because WE were bound to meet and go head over heals for each other,MashaAllah.

I just always keep thanking Allah mian that HE made us for each other,rather made YOU for me as i couldnt have asked for anything else better than your presence in my life,Alhum do lillah.

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Posted by on June 10, 2011 in Its JUNE After All!!!!!!!


Immunity Gained?????

Some times in life some things stick with you for LIFE. No matter how hard u may try to stop it from happening, no matter what ever measures u may take to avoid the occurrence of it but all the time and always at regular intervals it keeps bumping into you, making you cry, hurting you, torture you and make you bleed from inside. But avoiding the existence of it becomes impossible for you,it apparently becomes a permanent part of your life and it refuses not to disappear.

As the time passes, u learn to grow and live with these circumstances and accept it as a part of your life and try to ignore and not to pay attention at the presence of it. And at one point you absolutely become immune to its occurrence, it does not hurt you anymore, does not make u cry, does not make u bleed endlessly because it already has made so much damage that further more damage does not effect you in any way. It keeps coming into view and you just ignore it and move forward. You learn not to complain about it, you learn to accept it as it is, you learn to not make a big deal out of it. Because finally you come to realize that objecting and complaining are not working rather it only ruins the situation further more.

I dont know if i should have fought against it endlessly or i did it right by surrendering and getting immune to it presence, or some times i really wonder that if i really have gained the immunity or it still comes to haunt and hurt me to no bounds.

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Posted by on May 31, 2011 in Heart talk